Do you know anyone that’s gone through an affair? In this Marriage Monday we offer 4 ‘next steps’ to restoring your relationship after an that an affair is a serious breach of trust and few marriages survive, but it can be done. First, you have to commit to one of the relationships. If it’s your marriage, then you can move through these 4 steps, which we explain in break off all ties2. make an accounting for your time3. spend as much time together4. tend to each other’s emotional needsAffairs must be the current fad because we get emails all day long from marriages that have grown so far apart that they seek emotional and physical connection from someone else outside the you know anyone who is trying to heal after an affair, please share this message of hope with them.